Hi. My son is in his teenage years. We had good bonding previously but now we are always having arguments. I think his friends circle is not good and is leading him to wrong path. He has started missing his classes in college, drinking etc and I am really worried about him. Whenever I want to speak to him about these things he just gets angry and we get into a fight. What to do ?
Hi. Teenage years are most difficult for child as well as the parents. I am sure you do remember how you felt at your teenage years. Try and analyze the situation with more open mind. Skipping classes a few times is no big deal everyone does it but if it has become a habit then it is a serious issue. Also what your son does after bunking will let you know if this is serious or harmless. Try to be his friend and get him to open upto you. Also try to find out how his friends really are. Social media profiles can help you with that and also get them to spend time at home so you can get to know them. You can also try to get to know their parents as well.See each child is different. Just being friends with your child can help you bridge the gap and steer them in right way. If his friends are really not good instead of forcing your son to leave them try and show him why you are concerned about his company. Forcing your child to do something will only make him go away from you and further strain your relationship. Just explain your side to him as well. This is my personal view. I hope this helps.
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